Status - what's all that really about?

Been thinking about this recently...
For the moment, please put aside the question for those that fly for business and regularly gain AU or above with any airline - that level of status is nothing more than a loyal customer that spends a lot of money with that airline would really deserve and gives you good benefits in return.
For someone like me, that travels purely for pleasure, usually with my family, and has the occasional business flight (once every couple of years kind of occasionally)...what is status all about?
Think for the moment, about the middling tiers of status with an airline group.
I used to attain AG with Virgin more often than not...
I switched to BA for various reasons...
I now attain AG with BA just about...
But at what cost, and for what return?
You see, this quest to obtain or retain "status" with an airline (or airline group) is really very insidious - it actually has the effect of limiting your choices.
For example, Towards the end of my time with VS, I was travelling to TPA. Rather than taking the direct BA flight and better airport experience, I took VS to MCO plus an expensive taxi ride in order to just get those TPs I needed...it ended up costing far more and was less convenient.
I've been looking at flying to CLE later this year, and have been trying to contrive a routing with BA and partners in orrder to gain maximum TPs...and maintain my "status"...
Why am I doing this? What do I gain?
The fact that airlines have called it "status" is very clever, it makes many feel valued far more than the cold reality of the thing, and for some, I'm sure is some sort of head swelling factor ("Oh, of course I am a silver member" - "being a gold member..." - and the like).
So, having achieved the dizzying heights of mediochre status with an airline, I get "benefits" that variously include mileage bonuses when I fly with them, lounge access, notional advantages in standby queues, check in at premium/business class desks etc.
In the cold light of day, what is this really worth? So what if I have to spend 15 minutes longer checking in, so what if I don't get to sit in a lounge - in the grand scheeme of things, airports are not a place you would choose to spend time, it's a necessary part of getting from A to B.
Of course, when you do get that reward flight (usually in F for me with BA), you don't get the tier points and then find yourself looking for ways of taking extra flights just to squeak over the line to keep "status"...
What's the point of this opus?
I happened to log into my old VS FC accounts today and found that I still had around 100k miles in there. If I maintain this singleminded "loyalty" to BA and partners, I'm never going to get the chance to use those miles...nor am I ever going to check out prices with other airlines or take the best routing...
I am seriously considering just forgetting all this airline loyalty stuff and taking the flights with the airline that suits me best on a particular route, and just incrementally gain mileage in whatever loyalty scheme happens to apply.
I'll keep the BA Amex - their 241 actually is useable and is great value when booking F (which I have now done twice using Avios).
This will give me freedom to try other airline products, to take the best routing, to mix and match airlines and take my self-imposed pressure off to maintain my "status"...
Thoughts? Comments?
For the moment, please put aside the question for those that fly for business and regularly gain AU or above with any airline - that level of status is nothing more than a loyal customer that spends a lot of money with that airline would really deserve and gives you good benefits in return.
For someone like me, that travels purely for pleasure, usually with my family, and has the occasional business flight (once every couple of years kind of occasionally)...what is status all about?
Think for the moment, about the middling tiers of status with an airline group.
I used to attain AG with Virgin more often than not...
I switched to BA for various reasons...
I now attain AG with BA just about...
But at what cost, and for what return?
You see, this quest to obtain or retain "status" with an airline (or airline group) is really very insidious - it actually has the effect of limiting your choices.
For example, Towards the end of my time with VS, I was travelling to TPA. Rather than taking the direct BA flight and better airport experience, I took VS to MCO plus an expensive taxi ride in order to just get those TPs I needed...it ended up costing far more and was less convenient.
I've been looking at flying to CLE later this year, and have been trying to contrive a routing with BA and partners in orrder to gain maximum TPs...and maintain my "status"...
Why am I doing this? What do I gain?
The fact that airlines have called it "status" is very clever, it makes many feel valued far more than the cold reality of the thing, and for some, I'm sure is some sort of head swelling factor ("Oh, of course I am a silver member" - "being a gold member..." - and the like).
So, having achieved the dizzying heights of mediochre status with an airline, I get "benefits" that variously include mileage bonuses when I fly with them, lounge access, notional advantages in standby queues, check in at premium/business class desks etc.
In the cold light of day, what is this really worth? So what if I have to spend 15 minutes longer checking in, so what if I don't get to sit in a lounge - in the grand scheeme of things, airports are not a place you would choose to spend time, it's a necessary part of getting from A to B.
Of course, when you do get that reward flight (usually in F for me with BA), you don't get the tier points and then find yourself looking for ways of taking extra flights just to squeak over the line to keep "status"...
What's the point of this opus?
I happened to log into my old VS FC accounts today and found that I still had around 100k miles in there. If I maintain this singleminded "loyalty" to BA and partners, I'm never going to get the chance to use those miles...nor am I ever going to check out prices with other airlines or take the best routing...
I am seriously considering just forgetting all this airline loyalty stuff and taking the flights with the airline that suits me best on a particular route, and just incrementally gain mileage in whatever loyalty scheme happens to apply.
I'll keep the BA Amex - their 241 actually is useable and is great value when booking F (which I have now done twice using Avios).
This will give me freedom to try other airline products, to take the best routing, to mix and match airlines and take my self-imposed pressure off to maintain my "status"...
Thoughts? Comments?