Sorry Richard but Frangipan does a 90% good job in all aspects of his post, not to say i disagree with your post either (Mrs D would agree with regards to VS new recruits!!), but the VS management could have done more listening at an early stage & this nasty situation could have been avoided.
put two thirds of frangipan's post together with an equal measure of Richard's and that about sums everything up.
For the sake of those CC's of the same caliber as Denzil's good lady I am afraid a lot of the people on cabincrew.com and prune need to take Sir Rs advice, some of the simplistic banal comments diminish the credibility of the professional crewmembers both strikers and none strikers.