I really think this topic has hit hard to both pax and staff.
This is my first post and as someone previously said, I had to sign up as certain comments really made my blood boil!
I have been in the airline industry now for over 5 years (I realise a very short time in comparison to some) but I feel enough time to understand the way that the airline industry is currently having to work to remain profitable.
I have worked for 2 airlines in this time. BA as ground staff and presently crew with VS (and love it).
Whilst working for BA, my boyfriend began his career with VS as crew, so was lucky enough to use both my own concessions and his concessions when wishing to travel.
Even though I had a higher prority with my own BA tickets, their system is far, far less generous and if flying long haul would do all possible to ensure that I was flying Virgin, where possible (hence my eventual move over from BA to VS - regardless what anyone says about the money, I wish I had done it years ago! Alas, I digress!)
I have been lucky enough when travelling as a full fare paying passenger to travel in Y, on staff travel in W and when positioning as crew in J. I have also made 4 trips on a jumpseat.
My first point is that I would like to agree with everybody else on here , whether staff or passenger that I think it is absolutely disgusting that other staff may make a full fare paying passengers journey more uncomfortable in any way, shape or form.
I am by no means blowing my own trumpet but I hope I speak for the majority of staff who do not accept any of the additional items offered if seated in J (ie. sleep suit, amenity kit, services from IFBT, first choice of meal etc etc).
I have previously used the bar and would always ensure that I did not take the only seat available if the area was very full and would most certainly move if asked by crew or if another pax made it known that they wished to sit there.
I have also moved seat twice (once where I moved from J back to W) due to faulty tables/inop IFE, and rightly so. I am not going to pretend that had I been paying full fare I would even be able to afford W, so I am perfectly happy with just a seat (having jumpseated on many occasions - a risk you take on staff travel)
I have also moved when positioning for the same reason. Again, rightly so.
I realise that my post is a lengthy one (for my first at least!) but just wanted to express my personal feelings on the staff travel /staff upgrades debate;
Yes, I use my tickets and enjoy using them when I do, there are few industries that offer such great benefits... scrap that, there are few (if any) airlines that offer staff travel as generous as VS, HOWEVER I fully agree, full fare pax are those that have paid a hell of alot for that seat and therefore take priority.
After thinking of ways to write this post I see why it is such a sensitive topic and hope that both staff and passengers see this subject from each others perspectives.
Happy Flying

Gav xx